Reaching the age of B-Mitzvah is a meaningful moment for a child, their family, and the congregation. Whether or not a formal ceremony is held, we celebrate each child’s growth through Hebrew School (JCEP), participation in services, and their deepening connection to Jewish life.
At Kol Ami, B-Mitzvah marks both an achievement and a beginning. Students build skills and confidence through ongoing learning, and teens are encouraged to remain involved in the community through worship, leadership, and Jewish teen programming. We are honored to celebrate this milestone with our B-Mitzvah students and their families—mazel tov!
Kol Ami honors every child as an individual. To be inclusive of children who identify as male, female, non-binary, or queer, we use the term B-Mitzvah. We aim for every student to experience this milestone as spiritually meaningful, recognize their learning accomplishments, and feel supported on the path to deeper Jewish knowledge. During the B-Mitzvah year, students and families meet with the rabbi to reflect on the milestone and the new responsibilities it brings.
For families choosing a B-Mitzvah ceremony, services follow traditional lines while welcoming creative expression. We are mindful of each child’s comfort with Hebrew, public performance, and individual background. Students may:
B-Mitzvah preparation begins with an initial meeting with the rabbi, followed by additional meetings throughout the year. Tutors in the DMV area can be recommended for weekly preparation. A rehearsal with the rabbi is held the week of the service to help students and families feel ready and confident.
Here are some important resources for families choosing to have a B-Mitzvah service:
Kol Ami supports children and families through the meaningful milestone of B-Mitzvah, providing guidance, preparation, and opportunities to participate in worship and Jewish life. Our approach is inclusive, personalized, and designed to nurture confidence and connection.
Interested in celebrating a B-Mitzvah at Kol Ami? Contact us to learn more about our preparation process and how we support families through this meaningful milestone.
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