A Milestone in Jewish Life
Reaching the age of B-Mitzvah is a meaningful moment for a child, their family, and the congregation. Whether or not a formal ceremony is held, we celebrate each child’s growth—through Hebrew School (JCEP), participation in services, and their increasing connection to Jewish life. After becoming Bar or Bat Mitzvah, teens are encouraged to stay involved at Kol Ami and explore Jewish teen programs.
Inclusive and Individual Approach
Kol Ami honors every child as an individual. To be inclusive of children who identify as male, female, non-binary, or queer, we use the term B-Mitzvah. We aim for every student to experience this milestone as spiritually meaningful, recognize their learning accomplishments, and feel supported on the path to deeper Jewish knowledge. During the B-Mitzvah year, students and families meet with the rabbi to reflect on the milestone and the new responsibilities it brings.
Ceremony and Creative Expression
For families choosing a B-Mitzvah ceremony, services follow traditional lines while welcoming creative expression. We are mindful of each child’s comfort with Hebrew, public performance, and individual background. Students may:
Preparation and Support
B-Mitzvah preparation begins with an initial meeting with the rabbi, followed by additional meetings throughout the year. Tutors in the DMV area can be recommended for weekly preparation. A rehearsal with the rabbi is held the week of the service to help students and families feel ready and confident.
Here are some important resources for families choosing to have a B-Mitzvah service:
Kol Ami celebrates this important step in a child’s Jewish journey and welcomes families to share in this milestone. Mazel tov to all our B-Mitzvah students and their families!
Kol Ami supports children and families through the meaningful milestone of B-Mitzvah, providing guidance, preparation, and opportunities to participate in worship and Jewish life. Our approach is inclusive, personalized, and designed to nurture confidence and connection.
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Have questions or want to participate? Contact us to learn more about B-Mitzvah preparation and how your family can take part in this important step of Jewish life.
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