Kol Ami — The Northern Virginia Reconstructionist Community

Shabbat Services

Experience Shabbat at Kol Ami: Celebrate, Reflect, Connect

Shabbat marks a weekly pause—from Friday evening through Saturday night—when we rest, reflect, and reconnect with spirit, community, and gratitude. As Rabbi Abraham Joshua Heschel wrote, Shabbat is a “cathedral in time”—a sacred opportunity to step away from daily routines and embrace reflection, gratitude, and joy. 

At Kol Ami, Shabbat is at the heart of our community. Our services blend meaningful prayer, uplifting music, and shared reflection. Whether in person or online, all are welcome to find connection and renewal. Rooted in the Reconstructionist tradition, our worship balances reverence with creativity—welcoming those familiar with Jewish practice and those exploring it for the first time.

Learning & Participating in Shabbat Services

We offer Shabbat services most weeks of the year, with a mix of Friday night services (usually once a month) and Saturday morning services (3-4 times a month). Services are led by our rabbi and by lay members of our community, and you are welcome to join either in person or online.

Friday nights begin at 6:00 pm and conclude around 7:00 PM, followed by a shared Shabbat dinner. Saturday mornings run from 10:00 am to 12:00 pm and often include a lively Torah discussion, with kiddush afterwards.

Visit our Calendar page for information on upcoming services. For information on joining virtually, contact us.

Kol Ami encourages active participation in Shabbat worship, offering resources for those who wish to learn the prayers, melodies, and Torah/Haftarah tropes used in our services.

Melodies & Musical Guides: Recordings for Shabbat services are available for adults and B-Mitzvah students, helping everyone engage fully in prayer and song.

Service Guides: Step-by-step guides outline the basic elements of a Kol Ami service for Kabbalat Shabbat and Shabbat Morning.

Special-Themed Shabbat Services

Each year we celebrate a number of special Shabbat services that highlight important values, traditions, and moments in our community. These include Healing Service, focusing on reflection and renewal; Inclusion & Diversity Shabbat, exploring ways of enhancing our inclusivity and honoring the richness of our community; Gospel Shabbat, featuring uplifting music and interfaith celebration; and Pride Shabbat, celebrating LGBTQ+ members and allies.

Our B-Mitzvah services bring the family, friends, and congregation into the beautiful sanctuary of the UUCA for a joyous morning and meaningful participation in the service by the B-Mitzvah student. Several times a year, Kol Ami services led by guest rabbis bring unique perspectives and insights, enriching the experience for all participants.

Family Shabbat

Once a year, families plan and lead a Shabbat service on Saturday morning. Our JCEP students have a chance to lead the prayers they have been learning throughout the school year, both in class and with our music specialist, Ari Jacobson.

These services provide a welcoming space for learning, prayer, and celebration—helping families build lasting connections to faith, community, and each other. 

Learn more about our Family Services and activities.

 

Friday Night Shabbos Dinner

Shabbos Dinner at Kol Ami begins with Kabbalat Shabbat, a Friday evening service welcoming Shabbat with music, prayer, and reflection. Once a month, Kol Ami gathers for Kabbalat Shabbat services to welcome the Sabbath with prayer and song. This is followed by a communal potluck Shabbat dinner, giving members and guests a chance to share food, fellowship, and conversation.

This gathering provides a relaxed, communal setting where participants can connect with one another and the traditions of Shabbat. It is an opportunity to celebrate togetherness and enjoy the spirit of Shabbat beyond the prayer service, making it a meaningful and inclusive worship experience.

Havdalah & Potluck

A few times each year, Kol Ami gathers for Havdalah & Potluck, a special celebration marking the close of Shabbat. These gatherings—often hosted in a member’s home—begin with the Havdalah ceremony, featuring blessings over wine, fragrant spices, and the braided candle. Singing often accompanies the ritual, creating a warm and joyful way to transition from sacred time back into the week.

Following the ceremony, we share a potluck meal, where members and guests bring dishes to enjoy together in community.

Tot Shabbat

Tot Shabbat is a joyful, interactive worship experience for young children and their families. Led by Ari Jacobson, these gatherings blend simple prayers, songs, stories, and gentle movement—offering a playful and meaningful introduction to Shabbat.

Children explore blessings, learn melodies, and engage with stories while parents participate alongside them, creating shared memories and early connections to Jewish ritual.

Tot Shabbat reflects Kol Ami’s commitment to multigenerational worship, nurturing a welcoming space where our youngest members can experience the joy and rhythm of Shabbat.

See upcoming Tot Shabbat dates and learn more.

Stay Connected with Kol  Ami

At Kol Ami, we strive to keep our community connected through meaningful Shabbat worship and shared spiritual experiences. Whether attending in person or online, you can join our Friday evening and Saturday morning services, special-themed Shabbat, Tot Shabbat, or seasonal Havdalah gatherings all our welcome.

Stay up to date by signing up for our monthly Kol Ami newsletter, where you’ll receive announcements about upcoming services, worship resources, and special programs. You can also explore our calendar of services and events to see what’s coming up—everyone is welcome, and no membership is required.

Ready to deepen your connection? Contact us about participating in services, accessing Shabbat learning resources, or becoming a member of Kol Ami.

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